"I'm not dating any one guy right now, but that doesn't mean I'm not getting laid," said Amai. "It doesn't mean that I'm easy-a slut-either. A guy's not going to get anywhere till we've been out two or three times, but once I decide that I want him, then I'll make the moves and let him know that he's gonna get lucky. If he's not considerate in bed-and a lot of guys about my age aren't-then I won't go out with him again. I want oral sex-both ways-and an orgasm before we have sex, and then I expect him to take his time so I can cum, and not just shoot his load as soon as he's in me.".