Making The First Move

"I got into having sex way before I was legal to do so, and, by then, I'd had sex toys for years," said Paola. "But I'm not a slut: I don't just sleep with guys because I can. I mean, I never do anything with a guy on a first or even second date, and he won't get past third base the third time we go out, either. By the fourth time we go out, I will have decided whether I want to get physical with him or not. If I've decided that I do, I'll make the first move and be the assertive one if he's a bit shy. Hey, I've even gotten real good at putting on condoms! But I don't like being a guy's first girl, because those guys last about 30 seconds inside me if they're lucky and I don't like to be left like that with the guy making sorry excuses about it."